Are You Effective in Dating?

1. 1.You see a guy online. Do you: *This question is required.

• Write him an email, telling him that you thought he was cute, liked his profile, and want to know if he’d like to meet for drinks?
• Favorite his profile, hoping that he takes the hint and writes to you?
• Do nothing because it’s his job to write to you if he’s interested.
• Write him an email that makes him laugh.

2. 2. The guy emails you and wants to meet up as quickly as possible to see if there’s chemistry. Do you: *This question is required.

• Flirt with him via email to see if he’s worthy of a phone call?
• Give him your number so he can text you to set up a time?
• Dismiss him because he’s too aggressive?
• Write back and agree to meet him for Starbucks when you’re available?

3. 3. The guy texts you intermittently during the week. You’re not crazy about texting and don’t think it’s helping you learn more about him. Do you: *This question is required.

• Keep on texting him because you don’t know what else to do?
• Suggest that he call you on the phone?
• Ignore his texts, hoping he takes the hint?
• Pick up the phone and dial him?

4. 4. The guy wants to plan the date and asks what you’d like to do. Do you: *This question is required.

• Find a way to wiggle out of the date before it happens?
• Get annoyed that he’s asking for your help on something so simple?
• Tell him he’s being sweet and offer him a recommendation?
• Encourage him to make a choice for you?

5. 5. It’s Friday at 1pm. Your date is later that night. Do you: *This question is required.

• Text him to clarify when and where you’re meeting?
• Assume he forgot and make plans with another friend?
• Do nothing and ignore him if he contacts you.
• Write him an email explaining how disappointed you are at his behavior.

6. 6. You’re at dinner and you’re getting to know each other. Do you: *This question is required.

• Sit back and see whether he is a good first date or not?
• Get nervous because you don’t want to screw things up?
• Ask questions to help you ascertain his long-term potential?
• Make him feel appreciated and attractive?

7. 7. The check comes. Do you: *This question is required.

• Grab the check to pay for it in full to avoid an awkward moment.
• Offer right away to split the check in half and hope that he declines.
• Let it sit on the table and eventually reach for your wallet to split it.
• Let it sit on the table indefinitely until he picks up the tab himself.

8. 8. Your date – whom you liked - leans in to kiss you. Do you: *This question is required.

• Turn your cheek so he doesn’t think you’re “that kind of girl.”
• Kiss him back.
• Tell him directly that you don’t kiss guys on the first date.
• Quickly offer a hug before he can make contact with your lips.

9. 9. It’s the day after the date. Do you: *This question is required.

• Text him to thank him for the night before?
• Text him to ask when you’re going to see each other again?
• Do nothing because you thanked him fully at the end of the date?
• Text him to tell him how much you liked him?

10. 10. It’s been a week since your date and he hasn’t followed up. Do you: *This question is required.

• Wish him well via email and ask for honest feedback for future dates.
• Text him to see if he’s free later this week?
• Move on to the other guys you’re emailing online.
• Take a dating hiatus because you can’t take another rejection.

11. 11. Your date emails you that he’s started seeing someone else seriously and lets you know that if it doesn’t work out, he’ll be in touch. Do you: *This question is required.

• Tactfully let him know you’re nobody’s second choice.
• Tell him off, then block him on the dating site.
• Ignore him entirely.
• Wish him luck with his girlfriend and give him a second chance if he returns.