Skip survey header

Cues of Sexual Desire Test

Fill out this short survey and learn how you interpret sexual desire!

This survey is anonymous and confidential (see our privacy statement) and should take approximately 8 minutes to complete. The questionnaire has approximately 12 questions that seek to understand your experience of sexual desire. Feel free to check it out, you can withdraw at any time.  If you have any questions about or comments please contact Dr. Zebroff at info@artofconnection.org.


* By completing the survey you are agreeing to participate in furthering our understanding of human sexuality.
This question requires a valid email address.
2. My gender is: *This question is required.
3. My sexual orientation is:
5. My relationship status is:
I have been in my relationship for:
I would rate the general satisfaction of my relationship as:
6. When was the last time you felt 'sexual desire' to masturbate/fantasize?
7. When was the last time you felt 'sexual desire' to be with a partner? (whether one was available or not)
8. Was your most recent/current lover a new partner or a long-term partner?
What clues in your body let you know you are feeling sexual desire
Think back to the last time you felt sexual desire (either on your own OR with a partner), what were the first signs that you were feeling sexual desire: *This question is required.It does not necessarily mean that you wanted to act on the desire, only that you felt sexual.
Space Cell Not at allSlightlyModeratelyConsiderablyVery strongly
Feeling flushed or hot
Warmth or 'heat' in genitals
Swelling or fullness of genitals or breasts
Faster or shallow breathing
Throbbing or pulsing in genitals
Quickening heart beat
Moistness or wetness
Shivering or quivering sensation
"Need to pee" sensation
Tension or tightness in my pelvis/genitals
Sensitivity or tenderness of breasts or nipples
Clenching or tightness in thighs
Tingling all over
Aching or heavy sensation in vagina
What clues in your body let you know you are feeling sexual desire
Think back to the last time you felt sexual desire (either on your own OR with a partner), what were the first signs that you were feeling sexual desire:
  *This question is required.It does not necessarily mean that you wanted to act on the desire, only that you felt sexual.
(Men)
Space Cell Not at allSlightlyModeratelyConsiderablyVery strongly
Faster or shallow breathing
Awareness of my erection / hardness
Sensitivity or tenderness of nipples
Sensation of sensitivity or aching in the testicles
Tension or tightness in my pelvis / genitals
Shivering or quivering sensation
Warmth or 'heat' in genitals
Throbbing or pulsing in genitals
Quickening heart beat
Feeling flushed or hot
Tingling all over
10. What emotional FEELINGS let you know you are experiencing sexual desire
Think back to the last time you felt sexual desire (either on your own OR with a partner), what were the first signs that you were feeling sexual desire: *This question is required.This feeling did not necessarily mean that you wanted to act on the desire, just that you feel sexual.
Space Cell Not at allSlightlyModeratelyConsiderablyVery stronly
Feeling strong or powerful
Feeling connected
Feeling playful
Feeling happy or good
Feeling anxious
Feeling a tension or urgency
Feeling alluring or seductive
Feeling relaxed or calm
Feeling focused
Feeling an openness or vulnerability
Feeling flustered or jittery
Feeling attractive or sexy
Feeling anticipation or wanting
Feeling frustrated
Feeling present
11. What YEARNINGS do you have with sexual desire
Think back to the last time you felt sexual desire (either on your own OR with a partner), what were the first signs that you were feeling sexual desire: *This question is required.This feeling did not necessarily mean that you wanted to act on the desire, just that you feel sexual.
Space Cell Not at allSlightlyModeratelyConsiderablyVery strong
Yearning to be filled or fill
Yearning to grab or push
Yearning to please partner
Yearning to kiss someone
Yearning for weight on me
Yearning to be desired
Yearning to talk
Yearning to put my body against another
Yearning to penetrate / be penetrated
Yearn to moan or make noise
Yearning for intimacy
Yearning to be loved
Yearning to grind or rub against
Yearning to DO a particular genital act
Yearning to merge or be close (with another)
Yearning to orgasm or release
Yearning for touch (overall skin)
Yearning for touch (genitals)
Yearning to think sexual thoughts or fantasize
Yearning to masturbate
Yearning to be held or hold someone
12. Is the 'sexual desire' you feel when you want sex with a partner the same or different from the sexual desire you feel when you want to masturbate/fantasize on your own?
13. What does sexual desire look most like to you? Please select one of the following images.
14. I feel the most sexual desire after: