Cues of Sexual Desire Test

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Fill out this short survey and learn how you interpret sexual desire!

This survey is anonymous and confidential (see our privacy statement) and should take approximately 8 minutes to complete. The questionnaire has approximately 12 questions that seek to understand your experience of sexual desire. Feel free to check it out, you can withdraw at any time.  If you have any questions about or comments please contact Dr. Zebroff at info@artofconnection.org.


* By completing the survey you are agreeing to participate in furthering our understanding of human sexuality.
2. My gender is: *This question is required.
  • * This question is required.
3. My sexual orientation is:
5. My relationship status is:
I have been in my relationship for:
I would rate the general satisfaction of my relationship as:
6. When was the last time you felt 'sexual desire' to masturbate/fantasize?
7. When was the last time you felt 'sexual desire' to be with a partner? (whether one was available or not)
8. Was your most recent/current lover a new partner or a long-term partner?
What clues in your body let you know you are feeling sexual desire
Think back to the last time you felt sexual desire (either on your own OR with a partner), what were the first signs that you were feeling sexual desire: *This question is required.
It does not necessarily mean that you wanted to act on the desire, only that you felt sexual.
What clues in your body let you know you are feeling sexual desire?  Think back to the last time you felt sexual desire (either on your own OR with a partner), what were the first signs that you were feeling sexual desire: *This question is required.Not at allSlightlyModeratelyConsiderablyVery strongly
Clenching or tightness in thighs
Tension or tightness in my pelvis/genitals
"Need to pee" sensation
Moistness or wetness
Throbbing or pulsing in genitals
Faster or shallow breathing
Swelling or fullness of genitals or breasts
Warmth or 'heat' in genitals
Tingling all over
Quickening heart beat
Sensitivity or tenderness of breasts or nipples
Feeling flushed or hot
Aching or heavy sensation in vagina
Shivering or quivering sensation
What clues in your body let you know you are feeling sexual desire
Think back to the last time you felt sexual desire (either on your own OR with a partner), what were the first signs that you were feeling sexual desire:
  *This question is required.
It does not necessarily mean that you wanted to act on the desire, only that you felt sexual.
(Men)
What clues in your body let you know you are feeling sexual desire?  Think back to the last time you felt sexual desire (either on your own OR with a partner), what were the first signs that you were feeling sexual desire:   *This question is required.Not at allSlightlyModeratelyConsiderablyVery strongly
Faster or shallow breathing
Throbbing or pulsing in genitals
Tingling all over
Quickening heart beat
Awareness of my erection / hardness
Sensation of sensitivity or aching in the testicles
Warmth or 'heat' in genitals
Shivering or quivering sensation
Sensitivity or tenderness of nipples
Tension or tightness in my pelvis / genitals
Feeling flushed or hot
10. What emotional FEELINGS let you know you are experiencing sexual desire
Think back to the last time you felt sexual desire (either on your own OR with a partner), what were the first signs that you were feeling sexual desire: *This question is required.
This feeling did not necessarily mean that you wanted to act on the desire, just that you feel sexual.
10. What emotional FEELINGS let you know you are experiencing sexual desire?  Think back to the last time you felt sexual desire (either on your own OR with a partner), what were the first signs that you were feeling sexual desire: *This question is required.Not at allSlightlyModeratelyConsiderablyVery stronly
Feeling attractive or sexy
Feeling flustered or jittery
Feeling frustrated
Feeling anticipation or wanting
Feeling relaxed or calm
Feeling happy or good
Feeling an openness or vulnerability
Feeling present
Feeling focused
Feeling a tension or urgency
Feeling anxious
Feeling alluring or seductive
Feeling strong or powerful
Feeling connected
Feeling playful
11. What YEARNINGS do you have with sexual desire
Think back to the last time you felt sexual desire (either on your own OR with a partner), what were the first signs that you were feeling sexual desire: *This question is required.
This feeling did not necessarily mean that you wanted to act on the desire, just that you feel sexual.
11. What YEARNINGS do you have with sexual desire?  Think back to the last time you felt sexual desire (either on your own OR with a partner), what were the first signs that you were feeling sexual desire: *This question is required.Not at allSlightlyModeratelyConsiderablyVery strong
Yearning to be filled or fill
Yearning to penetrate / be penetrated
Yearning to grind or rub against
Yearning to be held or hold someone
Yearning to orgasm or release
Yearning to kiss someone
Yearning to DO a particular genital act
Yearning to put my body against another
Yearning to be loved
Yearning for touch (genitals)
Yearning to talk
Yearning for touch (overall skin)
Yearning to please partner
Yearning for intimacy
Yearn to moan or make noise
Yearning to be desired
Yearning to merge or be close (with another)
Yearning for weight on me
Yearning to grab or push
Yearning to masturbate
Yearning to think sexual thoughts or fantasize
12. Is the 'sexual desire' you feel when you want sex with a partner the same or different from the sexual desire you feel when you want to masturbate/fantasize on your own?
13. What does sexual desire look most like to you?
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14. I feel the most sexual desire after: