What is your Arousal Type SuDo

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This survey is anonymous and confidential (see our privacy statement) and should take approximately 8 minutes to complete. The questionnaire has 30 questions that cover your sexual preferences and interests. Feel free to check it out, knowing that at any point you can discontinue without consequence. If you have any questions about or comments please contact Dr. Zebroff at info@artofconnection.org


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2. My gender is:
  • * This question is required.
3. My sexual orientation is:
5. My relationship status is:
I have been in my relationship for:
I would rate the general satisfaction of my relationship as:
6. In order to feel turned-on, I am most likely to imagine ____________________.
7. The part of sex that gets me turned on the most would be: *This question is required.
(Rank your answer in the order of highest importance to you. Minimum of 2)
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8. In preparing for my ideal sexual encounter, the situation that would help me to feel the most turned on would be: *This question is required.
(Rank your answer in the order of highest importance to you. Minimum of 2)
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9. The sexy-talk that gets me most aroused is: *This question is required.
(Rank your answer in the order of highest importance to you. Minimum of 2)
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10. My ideal sexual partner is:
(Choose the one that you find most relevant to you)
11. I feel the most aroused and confident in a sexual situation when: *This question is required.
(Rank your answer in the order of highest importance to you. Minimum of 2)
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12. When I am looking forward to sex, what I look forward to the most is: *This question is required.
(Rank your top 3)
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13. What is the metaphor that best describes hot sex for you: *This question is required.
(Rank your answer in the order of highest importance to you. Minimum of 2)
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14. My sexual style is: *This question is required.
(Rank your answer in the order of highest importance to you. Minimum of 2)
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15. Over the last year, how often have you had difficulty reaching orgasm (WITH a partner present)?
16. How important is it for you to have an orgasm with a partner?
17. Over the last year, how often do you have difficulty getting enough lubrication (women) or maintaining an erection (men) before or during sex?
18. Over the past 4 weeks how often have you used sexual thoughts or fantasy during masturbation?
19.  I feel content with the way my present sex life is.
20. When it comes to reaching orgasm, the thing I am most likely to get distracted by or worry about is: *This question is required.
(Choose your top 3)
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21. I get the most turned-on when:
22. I get most turned on in a sexual situation when:
"Taking control" in a sexual situation can be subtle, including initiating sex, introducing activities or changing positions, or more overt, such as using restraints or dom-sub roleplay.
24. In an average erotic encounter, how easily are you distracted from your erotic thoughts:  (distractions can be worries, thoughts or feelings, such as with your performance, body or everyday life).
Choose your current partner. If you are not in relationship at the moment, choose the most recent partner.
25. Take a moment to imagine an ideal erotic scenario. I can get more turned-on if: *This question is required.
25. Take a moment to imagine an ideal erotic scenario. I can get more turned-on if: *This question is required.strongly agreeagreenot relevantdisagreestrongly disagree
I can lead the action
I can feel "big"
I can feel a little exposed
My partner is attentive
My partner is expressive
I can show vulnerability
I can determine what happens next
I can be passive to the action
I can defer to my lover
I am actively encouraged to let go
I don't have to make decisions
I can be creative
I can enter a trance-like state
I can feel powerful
I can be assertive
I can feel in control
I can let go of making decisions
I can set the pace
I can be independent
I can merge with my partner
I can be responsible for what happens next
I trust my partner knows what to do next
I can feel forceful
26. How much of a turn-on are each of the following erotic scenarios (to think about or to do)? *This question is required.
Be honest! Your answers are completely anonymous.
 
26. How much of a turn-on are each of the following erotic scenarios (to think about or to do)? *This question is required.Strong turn-onModerate turn-onMild turn-onNot a turn on
Pushing my partner's sexual limits
Having my sexual limits pushed
Directing what happens next
Being directed in what happens next
"Forcing" my partner (in play)
"Being forced" (in play)
Evoking sensation
Receiving sensation
Rendering my partner helpless (in play)
Being helpless (in play)
Restraining my partner
Being restrained
Controlling my partner
Being controlled
Pushing my partner against a wall
Being pushed against a wall
Leading my partner
Following my partner's lead
Taking charge, leading the activity
Letting go, allowing a partner to take charge of the activity
Holding my partner down
Being held down
Knowing what is going to happen next
Not knowing what will happen next
Dominating my partner
Submitting to my partner
Asserting myself
Surrendering to the situation
Spanking a partner
Being spanked by a partner
Being positioned by my partner
Positioning my partner
Tying a partner up
Being tied up
Planning the next move
Awaiting for the next move
Setting up a sexy environment
Having my partner set up a sexy environment for me
Commanding my partner
Being commanded
Directing or reassuring my partner to be passive
“Letting go” of having to do anything
27. I believe my partner may judge me if:  (choose as many as apply to you)
You can write about the first one that comes to mind, or, if you think of several, write about one that is common for you, or that is a favorite.