Your Arousal Type

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This survey is anonymous and confidential (see our privacy statement) and should take approximately 13 minutes to complete. The questionnaire has approx. 29 questions that cover your sexual preferences and interests. Feel free to check it out, knowing that at any point you can discontinue without consequence. If you have any questions about it or comments about it please contact Dr. Zebroff at info@artofconnection.org.

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1. Email: (Your email address is not required, but handy if you want your results emailed to you) This question requires a valid email address.

2. My gender is:

Please enter an 'other' value for this selection.

3. My sexual orientation is:

Please enter an 'other' value for this selection.

4. What is your age? *This question is required.

5. My relationship status is: *This question is required.

Please enter an 'other' value for this selection.

I have been in my relationship for:

I would rate the general satisfaction of my relationship as:

6. When it comes to how I relate to others:(please mark which of the following you agree with)

Space Cell	No	Sometimes	Yes
I want to merge completely with another person	I want to merge completely with another person: No	I want to merge completely with another person: Sometimes	I want to merge completely with another person: Yes
I find it relatively easy to get close to others	I find it relatively easy to get close to others: No	I find it relatively easy to get close to others: Sometimes	I find it relatively easy to get close to others: Yes
Often, love partners want me to be more intimate than I feel comfortable being	Often, love partners want me to be more intimate than I feel comfortable being: No	Often, love partners want me to be more intimate than I feel comfortable being: Sometimes	Often, love partners want me to be more intimate than I feel comfortable being: Yes
One of my biggest worries is being left by a partner (or being alone).	One of my biggest worries is being left by a partner (or being alone).: No	One of my biggest worries is being left by a partner (or being alone).: Sometimes	One of my biggest worries is being left by a partner (or being alone).: Yes
I rarely worry about being "liked" by others.	I rarely worry about being "liked" by others.: No	I rarely worry about being "liked" by others.: Sometimes	I rarely worry about being "liked" by others.: Yes

7. Please answer the following questions about yourself. There are no right or wrong answers.

Space Cell	Not at all like me	A little like me	Somewhat like me	A lot like me	Exactly like me
I get embarrassed very easily.	I get embarrassed very easily. : Not at all like me	I get embarrassed very easily. : A little like me	I get embarrassed very easily. : Somewhat like me	I get embarrassed very easily. : A lot like me	I get embarrassed very easily. : Exactly like me
I care a lot about how I present myself to others.	I care a lot about how I present myself to others. : Not at all like me	I care a lot about how I present myself to others. : A little like me	I care a lot about how I present myself to others. : Somewhat like me	I care a lot about how I present myself to others. : A lot like me	I care a lot about how I present myself to others. : Exactly like me
It is hard for me to work when someone is watching me.	It is hard for me to work when someone is watching me. : Not at all like me	It is hard for me to work when someone is watching me. : A little like me	It is hard for me to work when someone is watching me. : Somewhat like me	It is hard for me to work when someone is watching me. : A lot like me	It is hard for me to work when someone is watching me. : Exactly like me
I usually worry about making a good impression.	I usually worry about making a good impression. : Not at all like me	I usually worry about making a good impression. : A little like me	I usually worry about making a good impression. : Somewhat like me	I usually worry about making a good impression. : A lot like me	I usually worry about making a good impression. : Exactly like me
I'm quick to notice changes in my mood.	I'm quick to notice changes in my mood. : Not at all like me	I'm quick to notice changes in my mood. : A little like me	I'm quick to notice changes in my mood. : Somewhat like me	I'm quick to notice changes in my mood. : A lot like me	I'm quick to notice changes in my mood. : Exactly like me
I'm always trying to figure myself out.	I'm always trying to figure myself out. : Not at all like me	I'm always trying to figure myself out. : A little like me	I'm always trying to figure myself out. : Somewhat like me	I'm always trying to figure myself out. : A lot like me	I'm always trying to figure myself out. : Exactly like me
I find myself attracted to things that are exciting, dramatic or spectacular.	I find myself attracted to things that are exciting, dramatic or spectacular.: Not at all like me	I find myself attracted to things that are exciting, dramatic or spectacular.: A little like me	I find myself attracted to things that are exciting, dramatic or spectacular.: Somewhat like me	I find myself attracted to things that are exciting, dramatic or spectacular.: A lot like me	I find myself attracted to things that are exciting, dramatic or spectacular.: Exactly like me
I enjoy being the center of attention.	I enjoy being the center of attention. : Not at all like me	I enjoy being the center of attention. : A little like me	I enjoy being the center of attention. : Somewhat like me	I enjoy being the center of attention. : A lot like me	I enjoy being the center of attention. : Exactly like me
It is difficult for me to say "thank you"	It is difficult for me to say "thank you": Not at all like me	It is difficult for me to say "thank you": A little like me	It is difficult for me to say "thank you": Somewhat like me	It is difficult for me to say "thank you": A lot like me	It is difficult for me to say "thank you": Exactly like me
I feel hollow or empty inside -- unless I am being told I am special.	I feel hollow or empty inside -- unless I am being told I am special. : Not at all like me	I feel hollow or empty inside -- unless I am being told I am special. : A little like me	I feel hollow or empty inside -- unless I am being told I am special. : Somewhat like me	I feel hollow or empty inside -- unless I am being told I am special. : A lot like me	I feel hollow or empty inside -- unless I am being told I am special. : Exactly like me
I believe that almost anyone can accomplish anything if only they try hard enough.	I believe that almost anyone can accomplish anything if only they try hard enough. : Not at all like me	I believe that almost anyone can accomplish anything if only they try hard enough. : A little like me	I believe that almost anyone can accomplish anything if only they try hard enough. : Somewhat like me	I believe that almost anyone can accomplish anything if only they try hard enough. : A lot like me	I believe that almost anyone can accomplish anything if only they try hard enough. : Exactly like me
I feel as if there are two selves inside me -- the good me and the bad (shameful) me.	I feel as if there are two selves inside me -- the good me and the bad (shameful) me.: Not at all like me	I feel as if there are two selves inside me -- the good me and the bad (shameful) me.: A little like me	I feel as if there are two selves inside me -- the good me and the bad (shameful) me.: Somewhat like me	I feel as if there are two selves inside me -- the good me and the bad (shameful) me.: A lot like me	I feel as if there are two selves inside me -- the good me and the bad (shameful) me.: Exactly like me

8. Overall, how satisfactory or unsatisfactory is your present sex life?

9. How important is it for you to have an orgasm with a partner?

10. Over the last year, how often have you had difficulty getting enough lubrication (women) or maintaining an erection (men) before or during sex?

11. Over the past 4 weeks, how often have you used sexual thoughts or fantasy during masturbation?

12. Over the last year, how often have you had difficulty reaching orgasm (WITH a partner present)?

When you are answering the following questions please think of what "lights you up" sexually. Refer to a favorite sexual fantasy or peak sexual experience for the best material.

Think about an ideal, rather than what is possible with a current partner.

13. In preparing for my ideal sexual encounter, the thing(s) that would allow me to move into an erotic mindset (from my everyday mindset) would be: *This question is required.Tip: Think about a favorite fantasy or peak sexual experience.

Space Cell	Not a turn-on	Weak turn-on	Moderate turn-on	Strong turn-on	Exceptional turn-on
Thinking about (or watching) a favorite sex act.	Thinking about (or watching) a favorite sex act.: Not a turn-on	Thinking about (or watching) a favorite sex act.: Weak turn-on	Thinking about (or watching) a favorite sex act.: Moderate turn-on	Thinking about (or watching) a favorite sex act.: Strong turn-on	Thinking about (or watching) a favorite sex act.: Exceptional turn-on
Dressing in my favourite clothes and/or preparing my body to look HOT.	Dressing in my favourite clothes and/or preparing my body to look HOT.: Not a turn-on	Dressing in my favourite clothes and/or preparing my body to look HOT.: Weak turn-on	Dressing in my favourite clothes and/or preparing my body to look HOT.: Moderate turn-on	Dressing in my favourite clothes and/or preparing my body to look HOT.: Strong turn-on	Dressing in my favourite clothes and/or preparing my body to look HOT.: Exceptional turn-on
Preparing a room with sexy ambiance (candles, scents, music, etc.).	Preparing a room with sexy ambiance (candles, scents, music, etc.). : Not a turn-on	Preparing a room with sexy ambiance (candles, scents, music, etc.). : Weak turn-on	Preparing a room with sexy ambiance (candles, scents, music, etc.). : Moderate turn-on	Preparing a room with sexy ambiance (candles, scents, music, etc.). : Strong turn-on	Preparing a room with sexy ambiance (candles, scents, music, etc.). : Exceptional turn-on
Getting into a space/ time that allows me to rid myself of stresses and focus on raw hedonistic pleasure.	Getting into a space/ time that allows me to rid myself of stresses and focus on raw hedonistic pleasure.: Not a turn-on	Getting into a space/ time that allows me to rid myself of stresses and focus on raw hedonistic pleasure.: Weak turn-on	Getting into a space/ time that allows me to rid myself of stresses and focus on raw hedonistic pleasure.: Moderate turn-on	Getting into a space/ time that allows me to rid myself of stresses and focus on raw hedonistic pleasure.: Strong turn-on	Getting into a space/ time that allows me to rid myself of stresses and focus on raw hedonistic pleasure.: Exceptional turn-on
A lover (or potential lover) doing something to make me feel needed.	A lover (or potential lover) doing something to make me feel needed.: Not a turn-on	A lover (or potential lover) doing something to make me feel needed.: Weak turn-on	A lover (or potential lover) doing something to make me feel needed.: Moderate turn-on	A lover (or potential lover) doing something to make me feel needed.: Strong turn-on	A lover (or potential lover) doing something to make me feel needed.: Exceptional turn-on
A lover (or potential lover) agog with lust for me.	A lover (or potential lover) agog with lust for me. : Not a turn-on	A lover (or potential lover) agog with lust for me. : Weak turn-on	A lover (or potential lover) agog with lust for me. : Moderate turn-on	A lover (or potential lover) agog with lust for me. : Strong turn-on	A lover (or potential lover) agog with lust for me. : Exceptional turn-on
A lover (or potential lover) engaging my mind.	A lover (or potential lover) engaging my mind. : Not a turn-on	A lover (or potential lover) engaging my mind. : Weak turn-on	A lover (or potential lover) engaging my mind. : Moderate turn-on	A lover (or potential lover) engaging my mind. : Strong turn-on	A lover (or potential lover) engaging my mind. : Exceptional turn-on
A lover (or potential lover) encouraging my inner calm ( away from outer distractions).	A lover (or potential lover) encouraging my inner calm ( away from outer distractions).: Not a turn-on	A lover (or potential lover) encouraging my inner calm ( away from outer distractions).: Weak turn-on	A lover (or potential lover) encouraging my inner calm ( away from outer distractions).: Moderate turn-on	A lover (or potential lover) encouraging my inner calm ( away from outer distractions).: Strong turn-on	A lover (or potential lover) encouraging my inner calm ( away from outer distractions).: Exceptional turn-on

14. When it comes to how sex starts, I get the most turned-on if/when:

15. Think back to a peak sexual experience. The factor(s) of the experience that stand out as highly arousing for me were: *This question is required.Tip: Peak experiences are those that left an impression on you. They can involve a moment of of awe or euphoria. Or can be described as the best or favorite experience.

Space Cell	Not a factor	Weak factor	Moderate factor	Strong factor	Exceptional factor
How the ambiance or surroundings were just right for me.	How the ambiance or surroundings were just right for me. : Not a factor	How the ambiance or surroundings were just right for me. : Weak factor	How the ambiance or surroundings were just right for me. : Moderate factor	How the ambiance or surroundings were just right for me. : Strong factor	How the ambiance or surroundings were just right for me. : Exceptional factor
How I could play out the sexual roles that I regularly think about.	How I could play out the sexual roles that I regularly think about. : Not a factor	How I could play out the sexual roles that I regularly think about. : Weak factor	How I could play out the sexual roles that I regularly think about. : Moderate factor	How I could play out the sexual roles that I regularly think about. : Strong factor	How I could play out the sexual roles that I regularly think about. : Exceptional factor
How attractive and sexy I felt.	How attractive and sexy I felt. : Not a factor	How attractive and sexy I felt. : Weak factor	How attractive and sexy I felt. : Moderate factor	How attractive and sexy I felt. : Strong factor	How attractive and sexy I felt. : Exceptional factor
How turned on my partner was (because of how sexy I was).	How turned on my partner was (because of how sexy I was).: Not a factor	How turned on my partner was (because of how sexy I was).: Weak factor	How turned on my partner was (because of how sexy I was).: Moderate factor	How turned on my partner was (because of how sexy I was).: Strong factor	How turned on my partner was (because of how sexy I was).: Exceptional factor
How emotionally connected I felt to my partner.	How emotionally connected I felt to my partner. : Not a factor	How emotionally connected I felt to my partner. : Weak factor	How emotionally connected I felt to my partner. : Moderate factor	How emotionally connected I felt to my partner. : Strong factor	How emotionally connected I felt to my partner. : Exceptional factor
How I could please my partner.	How I could please my partner. : Not a factor	How I could please my partner. : Weak factor	How I could please my partner. : Moderate factor	How I could please my partner. : Strong factor	How I could please my partner. : Exceptional factor
How I could let go of outside responsibility and not think, just feel.	How I could let go of outside responsibility and not think, just feel. : Not a factor	How I could let go of outside responsibility and not think, just feel. : Weak factor	How I could let go of outside responsibility and not think, just feel. : Moderate factor	How I could let go of outside responsibility and not think, just feel. : Strong factor	How I could let go of outside responsibility and not think, just feel. : Exceptional factor
How much I could revel in my primal body sensations.	How much I could revel in my primal body sensations. : Not a factor	How much I could revel in my primal body sensations. : Weak factor	How much I could revel in my primal body sensations. : Moderate factor	How much I could revel in my primal body sensations. : Strong factor	How much I could revel in my primal body sensations. : Exceptional factor
How I could watch or talk about the things that really turn me on.	How I could watch or talk about the things that really turn me on. : Not a factor	How I could watch or talk about the things that really turn me on. : Weak factor	How I could watch or talk about the things that really turn me on. : Moderate factor	How I could watch or talk about the things that really turn me on. : Strong factor	How I could watch or talk about the things that really turn me on. : Exceptional factor
How I could merge with my partner.	How I could merge with my partner.: Not a factor	How I could merge with my partner.: Weak factor	How I could merge with my partner.: Moderate factor	How I could merge with my partner.: Strong factor	How I could merge with my partner.: Exceptional factor

16. The sexy-talk that gets me highly aroused is: *This question is required.Tip: Think back to the last arousing sexual experience, with your current or favorite sexual encounter.

Space Cell	Not a turn-on	Weak turn-on	Moderate turn-on	Strong turn-on	Exceptional turn-on
Hearing or saying how much we care for or love one another.	Hearing or saying how much we care for or love one another.: Not a turn-on	Hearing or saying how much we care for or love one another.: Weak turn-on	Hearing or saying how much we care for or love one another.: Moderate turn-on	Hearing or saying how much we care for or love one another.: Strong turn-on	Hearing or saying how much we care for or love one another.: Exceptional turn-on
Talking about (or hearing) a description of the lusty (genital-focused) sex acts or roles that I imagine most often.	Talking about (or hearing) a description of the lusty (genital-focused) sex acts or roles that I imagine most often.: Not a turn-on	Talking about (or hearing) a description of the lusty (genital-focused) sex acts or roles that I imagine most often.: Weak turn-on	Talking about (or hearing) a description of the lusty (genital-focused) sex acts or roles that I imagine most often.: Moderate turn-on	Talking about (or hearing) a description of the lusty (genital-focused) sex acts or roles that I imagine most often.: Strong turn-on	Talking about (or hearing) a description of the lusty (genital-focused) sex acts or roles that I imagine most often.: Exceptional turn-on
Hearing my lover tell me how turned on they are by me.	Hearing my lover tell me how turned on they are by me.: Not a turn-on	Hearing my lover tell me how turned on they are by me.: Weak turn-on	Hearing my lover tell me how turned on they are by me.: Moderate turn-on	Hearing my lover tell me how turned on they are by me.: Strong turn-on	Hearing my lover tell me how turned on they are by me.: Exceptional turn-on
Hearing my lover tell me how much they need me, or how important I am to them.	Hearing my lover tell me how much they need me, or how important I am to them.: Not a turn-on	Hearing my lover tell me how much they need me, or how important I am to them.: Weak turn-on	Hearing my lover tell me how much they need me, or how important I am to them.: Moderate turn-on	Hearing my lover tell me how much they need me, or how important I am to them.: Strong turn-on	Hearing my lover tell me how much they need me, or how important I am to them.: Exceptional turn-on
I would rather have more sensual friction than do much sex talk.	I would rather have more sensual friction than do much sex talk.: Not a turn-on	I would rather have more sensual friction than do much sex talk.: Weak turn-on	I would rather have more sensual friction than do much sex talk.: Moderate turn-on	I would rather have more sensual friction than do much sex talk.: Strong turn-on	I would rather have more sensual friction than do much sex talk.: Exceptional turn-on

17. Other than orgasm, the stage(s) of sex (with a partner) I find highly exciting are: *This question is required.Tip: Think back to a favorite encounter or fantasy.

Space Cell	Not at all exciting	Not very exciting	Somewhat exciting	Exciting	Extremely exciting
The teasing and seduction before.	The teasing and seduction before.: Not at all exciting	The teasing and seduction before.: Not very exciting	The teasing and seduction before.: Somewhat exciting	The teasing and seduction before.: Exciting	The teasing and seduction before.: Extremely exciting
The roles we get to act out to build arousal.	The roles we get to act out to build arousal.: Not at all exciting	The roles we get to act out to build arousal.: Not very exciting	The roles we get to act out to build arousal.: Somewhat exciting	The roles we get to act out to build arousal.: Exciting	The roles we get to act out to build arousal.: Extremely exciting
The genital acts we do that build to orgasm.	The genital acts we do that build to orgasm.: Not at all exciting	The genital acts we do that build to orgasm.: Not very exciting	The genital acts we do that build to orgasm.: Somewhat exciting	The genital acts we do that build to orgasm.: Exciting	The genital acts we do that build to orgasm.: Extremely exciting
The emotional connection during .	The emotional connection during .: Not at all exciting	The emotional connection during .: Not very exciting	The emotional connection during .: Somewhat exciting	The emotional connection during .: Exciting	The emotional connection during .: Extremely exciting
The emotional connection after.	The emotional connection after.: Not at all exciting	The emotional connection after.: Not very exciting	The emotional connection after.: Somewhat exciting	The emotional connection after.: Exciting	The emotional connection after.: Extremely exciting
The primal touching - it doesn't matter which stage.	The primal touching - it doesn't matter which stage.: Not at all exciting	The primal touching - it doesn't matter which stage.: Not very exciting	The primal touching - it doesn't matter which stage.: Somewhat exciting	The primal touching - it doesn't matter which stage.: Exciting	The primal touching - it doesn't matter which stage.: Extremely exciting

18.

Thinking back to when I have felt high sexual desire. Sexual desire usually starts with:

*This question is required.Tip: Think about the circumstances (how and when) you become aware of your own sexual heat.

Space Cell	Rarely or never	Seldom	Occasionally	Frequently	Most times or always
Watching or imagining a sex act in my mind.	Watching or imagining a sex act in my mind.: Rarely or never	Watching or imagining a sex act in my mind.: Seldom	Watching or imagining a sex act in my mind.: Occasionally	Watching or imagining a sex act in my mind.: Frequently	Watching or imagining a sex act in my mind.: Most times or always
A lover showing an interest in doing a sex act that I think about (or watch) all the time.	A lover showing an interest in doing a sex act that I think about (or watch) all the time.: Rarely or never	A lover showing an interest in doing a sex act that I think about (or watch) all the time.: Seldom	A lover showing an interest in doing a sex act that I think about (or watch) all the time.: Occasionally	A lover showing an interest in doing a sex act that I think about (or watch) all the time.: Frequently	A lover showing an interest in doing a sex act that I think about (or watch) all the time.: Most times or always
Stroking or touching my partner intimately.	Stroking or touching my partner intimately.: Rarely or never	Stroking or touching my partner intimately.: Seldom	Stroking or touching my partner intimately.: Occasionally	Stroking or touching my partner intimately.: Frequently	Stroking or touching my partner intimately.: Most times or always
My partner stroking or touching me intimately.	My partner stroking or touching me intimately. : Rarely or never	My partner stroking or touching me intimately. : Seldom	My partner stroking or touching me intimately. : Occasionally	My partner stroking or touching me intimately. : Frequently	My partner stroking or touching me intimately. : Most times or always
Seeing myself or thinking of myself as sexy.	Seeing myself or thinking of myself as sexy. : Rarely or never	Seeing myself or thinking of myself as sexy. : Seldom	Seeing myself or thinking of myself as sexy. : Occasionally	Seeing myself or thinking of myself as sexy. : Frequently	Seeing myself or thinking of myself as sexy. : Most times or always
Being seen as sexy by an attractive person.	Being seen as sexy by an attractive person. : Rarely or never	Being seen as sexy by an attractive person. : Seldom	Being seen as sexy by an attractive person. : Occasionally	Being seen as sexy by an attractive person. : Frequently	Being seen as sexy by an attractive person. : Most times or always
Doing something romantic for my partner.	Doing something romantic for my partner.: Rarely or never	Doing something romantic for my partner.: Seldom	Doing something romantic for my partner.: Occasionally	Doing something romantic for my partner.: Frequently	Doing something romantic for my partner.: Most times or always
My partner doing something loving or caring for me.	My partner doing something loving or caring for me.: Rarely or never	My partner doing something loving or caring for me.: Seldom	My partner doing something loving or caring for me.: Occasionally	My partner doing something loving or caring for me.: Frequently	My partner doing something loving or caring for me.: Most times or always
Being needed or seen as important by the person closest to me.	Being needed or seen as important by the person closest to me.: Rarely or never	Being needed or seen as important by the person closest to me.: Seldom	Being needed or seen as important by the person closest to me.: Occasionally	Being needed or seen as important by the person closest to me.: Frequently	Being needed or seen as important by the person closest to me.: Most times or always
Being in an environment where the surroundings are beautiful or luxurious.	Being in an environment where the surroundings are beautiful or luxurious.: Rarely or never	Being in an environment where the surroundings are beautiful or luxurious.: Seldom	Being in an environment where the surroundings are beautiful or luxurious.: Occasionally	Being in an environment where the surroundings are beautiful or luxurious.: Frequently	Being in an environment where the surroundings are beautiful or luxurious.: Most times or always

19. If I had a choice for a sexual partner, the type of person that would turn me on the most would be: (rank your top 3) Order the items from the following list. First select an item with the spacebar to show a menu of possible ranking positions. Next, click a ranking position to order it in the ranked list. Note the menu will display more ordering options as you add items to the ranked list.

Someone who makes me feel important.
Someone who engages my mind.
Someone who is overwhelmed with lust for me.
Someone with "magic hands" who has mastered the art of touch.
My best friend.
Someone who really knows how to play their role with me.
A faceless (non-specific) person who will do the 'dirty' acts I like.
Someone who 'needs' me emotionally.
Someone who encourages me to explore my primal, animal side.
Someone who is interested in me, but plays hard-to-get.
Someone who is gorgeous or physically ideal.

20. When it comes to reaching orgasm (with a partner), the thing I am most likely to get distracted by or concerned about is: *This question is required.(Choose up to a maximum of 5)
Tip: Choose the answers that get in the way of your sexual focus. Think about a real-life situation where you were distracted away from your erotic reality.

We would get interrupted.
My partner would think I look strange or un-sexy.
I would become bored with what we are doing.
My partner would become bored with what we are doing.
We would not do the actions I need to go 'over the edge'.
I would be rushed or pressured.
I would lose control of my body (it will do something weird or embarrassing).

I would not be able to express myself as freely as I need to.
I would be playing a role that doesn't work for me.
My partner might judge what I like to do.
My partner might reject me.
My own (or my partner's) hygiene would not be the best.
I would not feel important or needed.
Other - write in (required) Please enter an 'other' value for this selection. * This question is required.

21. If I had to choose between these two options, the one that would fit my character most would be:

22. Choose the fantasy(s) that is the biggest sexual turn-on for you. (max of 3) *This question is required.Tip: Think about a fantasy that is most likely to get you aroused. Be honest! This does not have to be the fantasy that you think is most "acceptable" or possible. Just the hottest!

Which of the following sexual roles do you find most arousing to imagine yourself in? (max 3)
Tip: This is not which you like the best, but which you find the biggest turn-on.

Which of the following sexual roles do you find most exciting to imagine yourself in? (max 3)
Tip: This is not which you like the best, but which you find the biggest turn-on.

23. The sexual prop(s) I would find most interesting to 'light me up' sexually (with a partner): (max 2)

Sex toys (vibrators, dildos, anal toys, etc.)
Sensation props (eg. floggers, restraints, etc.)
Porn
Massage oils or scents
Lingerie
No sexual props, just us.
Fetish wear

24. When it comes to "watching" sex (with a partner), I would get more turned on if:Tip: Think of a time where you were able to feel the most sexually aroused.

25. Choose the words that are most associated with sexual heat for you: (choose max 5)Tip: Don't think too hard! Just let the words that you associate with sexual heat or desire pop out at you.

26. Think of a favorite sexual fantasy and write the highlights in the space below. You can write about the first one that comes to mind, or, if you think of several, write about one that is common for you, or that is a favorite. Write as much or as little as you like.

27. The most important aspect of sex that allows me to "light up" with desire would be:Sorry to say you only get one choice!

28. Of all of the following (non-sexual) movie genres, I am most drawn to: