Speed up or move faster. |
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Use surprise or spontaneity. |
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Slow down or move more gradually. |
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Use harder, stronger or intense stimulation. |
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Be passionate or urgent. |
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Use softer, lighter or gentler stimulation. |
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Be "forced" by my lover (in play). |
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"Force" my lover (in play). |
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Try a novel, new sex act. |
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"Take charge" and lead the action. |
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"Let go" and have my lover "take charge." |
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Adjust the environment to get rid of outside distractions. |
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Laugh or joke with my lover. |
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Include more... Deep kissing. |
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Include more... Gentle kisses. |
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Include more... Licking and sucking. |
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Include more... Massaging or caressing. |
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Include more... Scratching, slapping or biting. |
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Include more... Hugging or cuddling. |
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Include more... Grabbing/pushing or being grabbed/pushed. |
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Include more... Comforting or caring. |
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Include more... Encouragement to take more sexual risks. |
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Include more... Encouragement to slow down and take time. |
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Include more... Whispering or blowing in the ear. |
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