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Undresses for me |
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Gives me cuddles (non-sexual hugs or affection) |
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Touches or rubs my genitals |
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'Takes charge' of the situation |
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Approaches me from behind |
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Wears (or doesn't wear) certain articles of clothing |
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Pushes me against a wall or bed |
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Undresses me |
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Teases me by making me wait (anticipate) |
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Engages me in an intellectual discussion |
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Tells me how sexy I am or how much they desire me |
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Gives me gentle kisses |
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Does something genuinely caring or thoughtful |
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Strokes my chest or plays with my nipples |
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Sends me a sexy message |
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Talks dirty to me |
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Makes prolonged eye-contact with me |
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Tells me the things he/she wants to do to me |
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Is humorous or playful |
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Rubs or presses themselves against me (without saying anything) |
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Gives me deep (tongue), passionate kisses |
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Lavishes me with their attention |
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Suggests we take a "nap" together |
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Caresses all parts of my body (including non-sexual parts) |
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Gives me a massage |
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Sits (or lies) closer to me than usual |
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Sets up a room with sensual ambiance |
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Tells me how much he/she loves me |
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'Asks' me what they should do to me |
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Is rough or forceful |
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Surprises me, or is spontaneous |
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'Tells' me directly that they want to have sex |
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Kisses or caresses my neck |
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Is urgent or passionate |
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Nibbles on or plays with my ear |
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Engages in an emotional or romantic conversation |
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Teases me with seductive language or gestures |
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Shows me or tells me how aroused they are |
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Starts slow |
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Touches my back or buttocks |
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Invites me or leads me into the bedroom |
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Wrestles or tickles me |
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Invites me to have a bath or shower |
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Wakes me up with kisses or sexual touch |
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Demands that they have me...immediately |
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Teases me that I have been “bad” or “naughty” |
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Engages me in planning out a sexual role-play |
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Looks at me with desire |
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Touches me more than usual (is “handsy”) |
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Spends quality time or connects intimately throughout the day. |
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Grabs me or pulls me into them with intention |
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Clears time and space to enjoy each other |
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Arranges a romantic dinner/event |
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Describes a particular new sex act we will imagine/do together |
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Addresses other concerns/worries I might have |
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Sends me or shows me sexy pics |
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Sets up a future time for sex |
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Gives me a gift |
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Talks about my favorite taboo or novel sex act. |
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Makes me laugh or laughs easily |
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Offers themself to me, encouraging me to "take charge" |
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Acts genuinely interested in what I have to say |
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Takes a provocative pose or shows more skin |
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Hints or jokes about sex |
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Act submissive or respond to my commands (in play) |
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Watches porn with me |
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